Do you read a lot? Here is a hint for you.

Thriftbooks is a great source for the avid reader.

It doesn't matter if you are looking for a first edition, a signed copy, hard copy, or paperack. You can be searching for collectibles, a book to curl up with on a rainy afternoon, or maybe one to accompany you on your next trip on a plane or a train.  Thriftbooks can become your go to source for good reading material, old and new. 

My wife and my sister found Thriftbooks before I did. (Neither of them bothered to clue me in to this fabulous book seller and I am still upset it took me so long to find it.) A few months ago, when an ad popped up on a page I was browsing on on the internet, I clicked it. It didn't take long for me to decide to give Thriftbooks a try. I haven't looked back. In the past few months I have purchased dozens of books; everything from 1970s spy novels, Faulkner, Hemingway, J. D. Salinger, to recent New York Times Bestsellers. I have purchased books on raising chickens, gardening, history, classics, popular novels, on almost any subject you want or desire. It needs go be mentioned that on thriftbooks you can find titlers you may not be able to find at other book sellers or merchant websites. 

• Get to know the Constitution.
  https://constitutioncenter.org/the-constitution/full-text

Look, if you are an avid reader like me, I seldom sit down without a book in my hand, and this website is now my main source for books. I buy mostly used books in excellent condition but occasionally by some that aren't, but I have never gotten a book in bad condition and I get a lot of books. If you are looking for a book, almost any book even those that have been banned by some sources, give them a try.  

Let me know what you think about Thriftbooks. My theory is one can never have too many books.   https://www.thriftbooks.com/ 

No one paid me or even requested I mention Thriftbooks. This is completely unsolicited. I simply believe it is a great source for great reads and I think a lot of you will think so, too.

...until next time and remember: 

• Congress shall make no law...abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances. The United States Constitution. 

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Shifted Gears a Little Today

Mock Interviews  

Last week, I was asked to conduct a series of mock interviews for graduating high school seniors in Indiana. I was a last-minute substitute for an interviewer who suddenly had a conflict. I received all the information about the mock company, the position for which they were interviewing, and a series of questions I could use as a starting point to prepare for interviews that took place the next morning. The interviews were to be conducted virtually, and although I had a scheduling conflict, I agreed to conduct them from the airport where I would be waiting

I set up a makeshift "office" in a waiting area at the airport, complete with my Mac, iPhone, and the materials I had pulled together the previous afternoon. These were intended to be short interviews designed to make the students more comfortable with and acustomed to the process. Two of the three students I interviewed had previous interview experience, one of whom has held a job for two years and was already familiar with the process.

I won't go into much detail except to say that I tried my best to make the interviews as realistic as possible. I told them not to be nervous. Interviews, if conducted properly, are not a test. Rather, they are questions intended to provide the interviewer with insight into who you are and the assets you bring to a job. I emphasized that there were no wrong answers to the questions I was going to ask, so they could relax and help me get to know them.

As I mentioned, I interviewed three young people virtually: two young ladies and a young man. I don't know whetehr they were average or above average, but I can tell you that each of them displayed characteristics that made them highly employable. All three handled themselves professionally and were very respectful to me as the interviewer. When you see traits like these, you know they have been influenced by positive elements in their lives.

Illustration created in Microsoft Copilot

Throughout my career, I have conducted hundreds of job interviews and have been part of good, bad, and indifferent interviews. These young folks from Indiana knocked it out of the park. They were three different personality types, but it was clear that each had been taught well on how to conduct themselves in a business situation. One was very comfortable with the process; she answered my questions and was able to adjust her responses to align with the direction of the conversation. She interpreted the questions thoughtfully and provided succinct answers. Another interviewee had never been through an interview before. She was noticeably nervous but quickly composed herself and performed very well. She provided answers that fully addressed the questions I asked.

I share all of this to highlight that parents, teachers, and others who come into the lives of our young people influence them immensely. Mentoring doesn't stop there with any one of these influences. We—you and I—should take up that mantle and provide today's young people with role models they can look up to kand aspire to emulate. It is up to each of us to do our part in providing good direction for them. Being a positive role model for the youth is essential. By demonstrating respect, compassion, and providing clear direction and guidance, we can help young people develop into strong, successful adults who contribute positively to society. Through our actions and attitudes, we have the power to inspire and shape the next generation.

...just writing a few lines about what is on my mind today.

This Is a Crazy. Mixed-up Blog

 It is all about living in the country, and by country I mean rural America.

Rural America. That covers a lot of ground and our little share of rural America is in the deep south. I write today about some of the things we, down here, talk to each other about daily life and goings on. This is definitely not a "how to" on being country or living in a rural area. I could go into great detail about that subject, but I won't. As I write, I don't  intend for this to be a lengthy post, just some ramblings about things I have seen and done in the past few days. After all, that is what we talk to our family, our neighbors, and our friends about every day. 

It is important to remember the weather dictates what we do and when we do it to take care of our outdoor animals. If it is hot we make preparations for our animals to endure the heat. If it is cold we try to keep them comfortable, dry, and provide them with shelter that keeps that in mind.  It has been colder than a witch's tit the past few days so we have had to do extra work to keep them safe and warm. I guess it isn't really extra work when it is a labor of love. 

A winter storm blew down from the north early in the week and snow fell as far south as Florida. The cold enveloped an area from the midwest down to central Florida. We didn't get snow where we live like the folks south of us did, but we did get temperatures in the lower teens (F) with chill factors in the single digits in the early morning hours a couple of mornings. We simply are not accustomed to temperatures that cold even in January and February which are traditionally our coldest months. What does this mean for us who have livestock of that stay outdoors? It means you have to first keep their water from freezing. You have to keep them as dry and warm as you can, and you try to adjust their feed whenever possible to keep them strong and healthy.
The four-legged livestock requires a good deal of water so we have to keep their trough free of ice and filled so they have plenty to drink throughout the cold weather. That means venturing out in the cold a couple of times a day to clear the trough of ice and fill it so they won't run out of water. While I  do this I provide them with more hay than usual so they will stay in the barn and out of the wind in the coldest hours of the day and night. You have to be particularly careful feeding horses at any time because they don't adjust quickly to changes in their feed.  The additional hay we feed does not present a problem but if we provide them with a sudden increase in grain and protein they could become very ill with gastro-intestinal distress and possibly die. Again, we have to be very careful with them. 

Some our chicks dining on pumpkin.

Now for our little dinosaurs, our chickens. They are very cold-tolerant but again we take special precautions with their care during extreme cold weather. Like all livestock, we keep their water clear of ice and make sure they have plenty of it when it is cold. We provide them with shelter all year, but in the winter we have to be certain their surroundings are dry and free of draft. Their roosts are in places free of draft and adequate for the number of chickens we have in our flock. We increase their feed when it is cold so they are able keep themselves warm from the inside by being fat and healthy. 

When the temperature in our area is forecast to go below 20 degrees F I install infrared heat lamps to keep them warm. Now that the worst of that cold snap has passed my measure for success with our chickens is how they are laying both through and after the cold. I am happy to say they have performed well, keeping their average production about the same or maybe a little higher than before the snap. They are all still healthy and full of energy. By measuring their success, I can give us, as their stewards, a passing grade and say that we have been successful as well. 

A young female cardinal flew into the glass of 

our window. It was unconscious when 

I found it, and I rubbed it and got it war and 

within thirty minutes it flew away.

Now, we don't stop with the domestic animals. We also love the natural creatures that live around us all year. We have rabbits, raccoons, opossums, armadillos, deer, coyotes, foxes, turkeys, and all the birds that either live here all year, migrate quickly through on their way south, or migrate here for the winter to get out of the cold farther north.  There is not much I can do for most of those. The majority of the wild creatures are on their own. With the forest growing around us they have abundant food, water, and shelter to survive the winter comfortably. However, the birds are different. We provide them with food, a lot of food, for the winter and keep feeding them through the other seasons. 

This time of year we stay busy around here. We have a warm house and want all the animals we look after to be as comfortable as we are. We see ourselves as good stewards to them, that is, if they think of things like that. 

Our job is to take care of those around us as we would want to be taken care of if we were in their position.

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Jack Daniels Creates an Uproar Among Its Customers

Jack Daniels has the audacity to change its product packaging without first consulting its consumers.

With all the political upheaval in the world, things like a changing climate adding to unpredictable weather like snowfalls on the coast of the Gulf of Mexico, blizzard conditions in Louisiana, extremely dry windy weather adding to the fires in California, lack of snowfall in the Rocky Mountains causing hardships to the skiing industry, multiple year droughts killing millions of pine trees in the south and adding to the spread of the destructive pine borer beetle devastating the timber industry for years to come, it appears most people don’t care about these minor things. It seems they are paying little attention to what is going on around them.  

Add to this numerous border disputes and national boundaries in question are causing wars and strife around the globe. Again it seems people don’t care about these things. But there are some things worth raising the ire of the masses and here is one of those things work getting upset about: Jack Daniels has changed their bottle, and people are up in arms about it. I am not a Jack Daniels drinker, but maybe I should be so I could have that unyielding loyalty the brand’s imbibers possess.

Jim Beam is why I don't have a
horse in this race.

 

Americans have so many things to worry about, and for that reason, I am extremely pleased Jack Daniels recently made changes to its traditional packaging to take its customers’ minds off other potentially detrimental issues in the world. You know, I really don’t have a horse in this race but anything to change the subject from the major events of the day is newsworthy in my humble opinion. Border disputes and national boundaries in question are causing wars and strife around the globe.

It seems people don’t care about these things, but here is something to be upset about: Jack Daniels has changed their bottle, and people are up in arms about it. I am not a Jack Daniels drinker, but maybe I should be so I could have that unyielding loyalty the brand’s imbibers possess.

How dare a company make changes to something that absolutely has no effect on the product they are selling. This is an important development affecting millions of people in the US and globally for that matter. There is political upheaval in Washington, DC like no one has ever seen. At least 50 percent of the voters in America are optimistically hoping they have made the right decision while the other 50 percent are praying the nation can make it through the next four years with an enduring democratic republic intact.

To complicate our whole thought process and give us a little more to worry about, we are seeing a new administration's Cabinet appointees coming from what appears to be nowhere, which of course is not totally unlike every election before this one. However, in the past most appointees have had some experience at the national level. This time, unlike most elections, those being appointed are complete unknowns to most of those they will be serving with no apparent experience in public service or in some cases the fundemental basics of their appointed position. As a result gloom and doom are present on both sides of the aisle. But wait, we don't need to worry about this. But wait, that is not the important thing I am discussing here. It is important that we take a stand for or against Jack Daniels' right to change its bottle without asking permission from its customers. 

Jack Daniels has made changes to their bottle and people we just can't let that stand.   

To my knowledge there were no surveys, polls, or focus groups conducted by JD to help them decide the fate of their company and we all know this decision will determine its fate. How dare they mess with their own product. Who do they thinjk they are. It just doesn't matter that what is inside of the bottle remains unchanged the status quo has been breached and you dedicated Jack Daniels drinkers need to rise up and over throw the man. What gives them the right to change something that has worked for so many decades? Who do that think they are? It is not like they will make the ultimate decision and get the final vote. 
No, to the contrary. That final vote comes at the cash register. I think everyone should join in the ruckus and speak up for what you believe in. Speak loudly enough for everyone to hear you. Write letters to the management, talk to the managers of the store where you buy JD, stand on the street corner with a sign. Make your voice heard. This is your chance to stand for something that really matters, something you really believe in. 
With so many things to worry about, I am really pleased JD made changes to take its customers’ minds off other potentially detrimental things. You know, I really don’t have a horse in this race, but anything to change the subject from the major events of the day is newsworthy in my humble opinion. 

Forget about all of that other mundane trivial stuff that is effecting the world.  It is time to stand up for something that matters. 

Satire is a sort of glass, wherein beholders do generally discover everybody's face but their own.   Jonathan Swift

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A Solitary Sunday Stroll

A Winter Sunrise (photo ©Copyright 2025 John Helms)

The early morning sun cast a golden glow over the landscape, painting the sky with hues of pink and orange. It was a bright yet chilly January morning, typical for the season. I found myself yearning for solitude, the kind that only a long walk down a country lane could provide. 

As I stepped onto the path, the crunch of frost underfoot mingled with the soft rustling of pine needles swaying in the light breeze. The lane, framed by towering pine trees and small open meadows, seemed to welcome me into its embrace. My hands were snug in my pockets, while a wool cap shielded me from the cold bite of the air.

The tranquility was interrupted only by nature's whispers. Deer delicately nibbled on the sparse winter grasses, moving gracefully between the shadows. Squirrels busily darted up and down the few oak trees scattered in the pine forest, searching for the last remnants of autumn's bounty, while winter birds chirped and called from their perches. Above, a pair of hawks called out to each other, their cries echoing through the crisp air as they soared gracefully overhead searching for their next meal. (illustrations created in Microsoft Copilot) 

My thoughts turned inward, reflecting on how nature provides a sanctuary for spirituality and adoration of our creator. Here on this peaceful walk, I found a different kind of sanctuary. The simplicity of nature, its purity and unwavering presence, brought me closer to him and his creations. 

I inhaled deeply, savoring the scent of pine and the crisp, clean air. This walk, with its serene surroundings and honest wildlife, felt like a prayer, a meditation, a direct line of communication with God. My footsteps became a rhythm, a heartbeat, syncing with the Earth's pulse. 

My wool cap warmed me but it was the quiet reflection and bond with nature that truly comforted me. As I wandered down the lane, I realized that faith could be found in the simple, unadulterated beauty of moments like these. The pine trees, the meadows, the creatures—they all spoke of a creator far greater than any human construct could capture. This place in nature is my cathedral, the colors of the changing seasons replaced the stained glass and the filtered sunlight shimmering through the branches like candles on the altar comforted my soul. 

With each step, my heart grew lighter, my mind clearer. I found a spot off the beaten path and stopped for a moment of silence that turned into prayer and thanks. Though organized religion comforts the souls of many, I find my time in the woods with nature does it for me. This walk reminded me that spirituality could be simple, profound, and deeply personal. And so, I bowed my head in prayer and then continued my solitary stroll, grateful for the peace and clarity it brought to my soul.

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The Timeless Value of Trust: Reclaiming Integrity in Modern Society

"Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, and forever to repair." - Unknown

In an age where rapid technological advancements and instant communication dominate our lives, the age-old values of integrity and trust seem to be quietly fading into the background. Trust, a cornerstone of human relationships, has historically been the most valuable commodity a person could control. Today, the simplicity of a handshake deal has been largely replaced by convoluted legal documentation, often a necessity in a world where dishonesty has become more prevalent. This article aims to explore how trust and integrity have evolved over time, the value of a person's word and reputation, the erosion of trust in society, and why it is crucial to strive for a return to these fundamental values.

A simple handshake was a contract.

The Value of a Person's Word

Historically, a person's word was their bond. In ancient societies, a promise made was as binding as any written contract. This principle was upheld by the honor and integrity of individuals who valued their reputation. For example, in many traditional communities, oral agreements were sacred, and a breach of trust carried severe social consequences. Albert Einstein said, “Whoever is careless with the truth in small matters cannot be trusted with important matters.” Maintaining one's word was not only a personal ethic but also a social necessity that built strong, cohesive communities.

In today's world, while the significance of one's word may seem diminished, it remains a powerful tool for building relationships and earning respect. According to Stephen Covey, author of "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People," "Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It's the foundational principle that holds all relationships." This principle applies to personal and professional relationships alike, underscoring the timeless relevance of a person's word.

Business Deals and Handshakes

There was a time when business deals were sealed with nothing more than a handshake.This gesture was a symbol of mutual trust and respect, embodying the belief that both parties would honor their commitment. However, as societies grew larger and more complex, the need for documented
agreements became apparent. Legal contracts emerged to provide a framework for accountability and to protect against dishonest participants.

Contracts discounted trusted word.

Despite the prevalence of legal documentation, the value of a handshake deal persists in certain circles. Business leaders who adhere to this principle often find that it fosters stronger partnerships and a greater sense of loyalty. Warren Buffett, CEO of Berkshire Hathaway, is known for making handshake deals that reflect his trust in the integrity of his business associates. Buffett himself has said, "I look for three things in a person: intelligence, energy, and integrity. If they don't have the last one, don't even bother with the first two."

Reputation as Valuable Wealth

A person's reputation has always been a form of wealth. Unlike material possessions, reputation is earned through consistent actions and behavior over time. According to Plato, “You should not honor men more than their truth.” It is an intangible asset that can open doors and create opportunities or, conversely, close them. In many cultures, maintaining a good name is paramount. For instance, in Japanese culture, the concept of "meiyo" (reputation) is deeply ingrained, and a tarnished reputation can have significant social and professional repercussions.

In the modern world, character continues to play a critical role in personal and professional success. With the rise of social media and online presence, maintaining a positive reputation has become even more challenging. A single misstep can quickly spread and damage one's standing. This reality underscores the importance of integrity. As Benjamin Franklin wisely noted, "It takes many good deeds to build a good reputation, and only one bad one to lose it."

The Erosion of Trust in Society

In contemporary society, the erosion of trust is evident in various aspects of life, from politics and business to personal relationships. Scandals, corruption, and dishonesty have made people more skeptical and cautious. According to the Edelman Trust Barometer, a global survey that measures public trust in institutions, trust levels have been declining steadily in recent years. This trend is alarming, given the critical role that trust plays in fostering cooperation, innovation, and social cohesion.

The implications of this erosion are far-reaching. When trust diminishes, relationships suffer, organizations face more significant challenges, and societal progress slows. The lack of trust can lead to increased regulation and oversight, creating a bureaucratic environment that stifles creativity and growth. In personal relationships, the absence of trust can result in insecurity, conflict, and the eventual breakdown of bonds.

Returning to Core Values

To counteract the decline of trust, it is essential to return to core values that emphasize integrity, honesty, and respect. This shift requires a collective effort from individuals, communities, and institutions. Initiatives that promote ethical behavior and transparency can help rebuild trust. For instance, companies that prioritize corporate social responsibility and ethical practices often earn the trust and loyalty of consumers and employees alike.

On a personal level, individuals can strive to embody the values they wish to see in society. Leading by example and holding oneself accountable are powerful ways to inspire others to do the same. As Albert Schweitzer once said, "Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It is the only thing." By fostering a culture of trust, we can create a more cohesive and harmonious society.

Trust remains a fundamental aspect of human relationships and society. The value of a person's word, the integrity behind business deals, and the importance of reputation are as relevant today as they were in the past. While the erosion of trust poses significant challenges, it also presents an opportunity to reaffirm our commitment to these core values. By striving to return to a culture of integrity and trust, we can build stronger, more resilient communities. As the great philosopher Socrates once said, "The way to gain a good reputation is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear."

In contemporary society, the significance of trust cannot be overstated. With this in mind, envisioning a trust rating system, akin to the existing credit rating system, could revolutionize how we value and maintain trust. This hypothetical "Trust Score" would measure the balance between promises made and promises kept across various sectors, including politics, business, professional services, religious institutions, and personal relationships. For instance, politicians could be rated on their campaign promises versus their actions in office, while business leaders might be evaluated on their adherence to corporate social responsibility pledges. Such a system would hold individuals accountable, fostering a culture of integrity and reliability. Essentially, a high Trust Score would become a badge of honor, signifying an individual or entity's commitment to honesty, transparency, and follow-through. By quantifying trust in this manner, we could significantly enhance accountability and trustworthiness in our everyday lives.

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